lundi, juillet 24, 2006

Advice for boys from the "anonymous duo". aka yanks and dilo.

caveat: in reading this, understand that we are in no way implying that this is the be all and end all, and that this subject is wholly black and white. Rather, there are some causes of confusion and frustration that girls face in their relationships with guys and we are simply putting forth some ways that this confusion may be minimized. This is all in the context of a relationship in which expectations have not been explicitly discussed. Noteworthy, though priyanka and lydia are brilliant people, we don't presume to know what we're speaking of...and we're drawing from minimal experience (and the experiences of other girlfriends). As you read the following, please understand that hindsight changes many factors--and these are factors that we may not be putting into consideration in our discussion.


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SO... yanks and lyds started to attempt to cover the concept of "acceptable behaviour" when it comes to girl-guy relationships, as you can see by our caveat (which we decided to leave up to show how hard we attempted to work on it)....

but we realized that we really know nothing, and that Lydia's years of delilahood did nothing to help us figure guys out.

we conclude that relationships are a sticky and complicated mess even before they begin (and its usually the guys' fault...haha. just kidding. *~_^*)

therefore...best of luck to ALL guys who are beginning/in the process or wearing their hearts on their sleeves. we commend you..because seriously? man...we wouldn't want to have to do that. ever. good for you!

4 commentaires:

Anonymous a dit...

I'd like to see what you had, even if it wasn't complete.

som a dit...

that was some caveat

Lydia and Priyanka a dit...

haha, in all honesty anonymous, we REALLY didn't have anything. HAHA. we thought of a lot of things that we could have written...but we just ended up talking ourselves in circles--it was completely tautological and didn't really work.

in the end, we discovered that we really aren't sure what we want.

the conversation went something like this...

"Oh, and then there's THIS!"
"Oh yes, i completely agree!"
"but on the flip side...."
"oh you're right...
" hmmmm..."

loco a dit...

totally luvd ur post! lolz